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So in the last articles we have talked about a couple of reasons why we don't succeed Damen Nike Air Max 90 Woven Licht Rosa Schweiz , either in relationships or other areas of our personal life, or in business. We said that guilt and past failures both have a bunch to do with why we fail. The third reason is our Self Image. I told you a story about Donald to illustrate guilt and I told you the story about Jim to illustrate why past experiences stop us from succeeding. Both of these guys were extremes, but you need to watch out for the "symptoms" as well.

Today I am going to tell you a story about me. When I was a child, just before 5th grade, we moved to a small town in the Ocala area of Florida. Now the kids in this town had all grown up together and when the red headed freckle faced shy kids from the city (Fort Lauderdale) came to town they couldn't wait to make fun. So for years I lived with what seemed like every kid in this little town making fun of me. It was horrible, and as you know kids can be cruel.

So anyway Herren Nike Air Max 90 Woven Marine Blau Schweiz , I later moved to Pinellas County Florida, and my life changed. I was no longer made fun of, and as a matter of fact I was pretty accepted by everyone. I had outgrown the awkwardness that made me an easy target in my old town and now I was looked at as a big strong kid who many other kids were scared to pick on. Now I didn't throw my weight around, but I did have broad shoulders and a barrel chest, and I looked imposing.

The problem was that I never got over the little kid that got picked on all the time.

Even after I grew up, I never really got over it. I Herren Nike Air Max 97 Ultra' 17 Schuhe Dunkel Grau Schweiz , in my heart, never really found a way to feel better about myself, and as a result I had a bad self image. No matter how much I told myself it wasn't true, somewhere deep inside that little kid was scared of being made fun of, and felt like he deserved to be made fun of.

Translation, when I was married before Damen Nike Air Max 97 Ultra' 17 Schuhe Rose Gold Schweiz , when I made a good living before, no matter what was going on, I felt like a fraud. I felt like I could not maintain it because I did not deserve it. So I lost it.

It is funny, no matter how much money I made I was broke. No matter how many people I had around me I was lonely and no matter how many women I had, it was never fulfilling.

But then again, why would I let it be fulfilling Herren Nike Air Max 95 KPU Schuhe Triple Schwarz Schweiz , I never deserved any of that, right? Wrong! I did, and do, and you do as well.

In my book "The Barbarian's Guide to Success" I explain in detail what happened to my thinking, now that I understand it. The explanation is too long for this article, but in short I changed my Self Image and saw myself as a better person.

You can do the same.

With that I will say:

Get the Barbarian Mind Set and keep it. Stay tr? to yourself and your family Herren Nike Air Max 95 KPU Schuhe All Weiß Schweiz , the rest will take care of itself.

Welga!

Towards the end of every year, most people reflect on the previous 12 months. Thoughts about what could have been and what actually happened enter their minds. Sadly, for some the gap between the two is considerable, and this reflection can become a reason to beat yourself up. Even worse, pretending it didn't happen and hope the coming year will be different.

The reality is that if you want things to change, you will have to change.

If you didn't get the results you wanted in your business Herren Nike Air Max TN Schuhe Rot Schweiz , then you need to ask yourself some questions. If you didn't meet the goals you had for your life personally, then you will also need to figure out why. If you think hard enough, then you will discover what it was that distracted or prevented you from meeting your goals, so you can plan to handle them in the future.

The Basic Recipe
With any goal planning activity, the approach is relatively simple. By using this 'recipe? for success, you will guarantee that every year you are changing and improving on the previous year's performance Damen Nike Air Max TN Schuhe Weiß Schweiz , getting closer to realizing your dreams.

Here is the recipe:
* Reflect on the past year ? what you did and didn't doachieve, etc * Find out where the gaps were ? between what you wanted and what you got * Plan to fill these gaps next year ? what steps must you take to get what you want

It isn't any more difficult than that. Some may already have a process that helps to analyze their results and make the necessary changes. Whether you use your own method, or this suggested one, the result should be that you are better prepared for the coming year.

What happened in your Business?
In order to know where you are going, you need to know where you have come from. This means that you need to understand what has happened, so you can adapt and evolve your business into the success you want it to be.

Have a go at answering these questions:
* How many new customers did I want to have this year? How many did I actually get?
* What revenue did I want to make this year? What did I actually make?
* What was my customer solicitation like this year? How did I get my new customers?
* How did I promote my servicesproducts?
* What was I like to my staffco-workers?
* What was my attitude like at work?
* What did I do differently to other businesses? Were they more or less successful?

The answers to these questions will tell you what you wanted to achieve Herren Nike Air Max Plus TN Ultra Schuhe Dunkel Blau Schweiz , and help you reflect on how you performed in your business. Next, write down those things that you want to achieve in 2006.

Set your goals for 2006
As you write down your goals for next year, it is important to also write them down in such a way as to convince your sub-conscious mind that you really do want these things. To do this, you must phrase your goal is the following way (developed by Jack Canfield in The Success Principles):

I am __________, by ______________

So, if your goal is to have 100 new customers next year Herren Nike Air Max Plus TN Ultra Schuhe Weiß Schwarz Schweiz , the goal would be written this way:

I am enthusiastically securing 100 new customers by December 31st 2006

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